Monday 2 July 2012

I met him a virgin!!!!!

Read a pamphlet yesterday tagged"Do not open that gate".It was of course directed to young ladies citing reasons why they should abstain from sex till marriage.Makes me wonder why the girls always have to be the only ones to keep theirselves.It takes two to tango and in this case the man takes the lead and most times the pressuring.The boys are allowed to get away with thinking they are God's blessing to earth so it allows them the freedom to be promiscus while the girls should keep theirselves.Come to think of it,if guys appreciate a lady's body as much as they should,then there will be less pre marital sex around and less of sexually transmitted diseases..Like I told a very close friend a few days back'Dare to be the type of guy that every lady searches for,a kind that would be more interested in getting to know a lady not one whose primary purpose is to get in and out of her.As a mother,I would definitely teach my son(s) that sex is not all there is to a lady and they should be the kind of man whose wife would be proud to say"I am the first lady he slept with.he kept himself till our wedding night...Let our men dare to be diffrent

4 comments:

  1. Why do guys also have to be culprits?? In most cases let's not forget they are driven into these desires by the dressing of the ladies

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  2. A responsible guy would see and luk away.what makes you a different man is your ability to look at the scantily dressed girl and see beyond the dress.He wud fil pity and pray for such girl....Thanking God he has a perfect girlfriend......Thank u for commenting

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  3. How would Aristo girls survive if all guys keep Τ̅☺ theirselves

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  4. I understand ur point but I still believe a lot of factors come into play before a guy can say ♑ to a girl.......but what do U̶̲̥̅̊ expect a guy to do wen he's probably bin stood up on countless occassions by different girls......do U̶̲̥̅̊ think he wld buy into ur philosophy??

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