lets talk about violence

Time and time again, we hear stories bout how one angry partner, beat up his or very rare her partner to death or nearly to death. There was a time in our lives when if you had the unfortunate luck to marry a man who plummets you with blows and violence. Lots of stories and awareness has been sent across the world just so women who happens to be victim most times can be educated. The best time to reach out is when such relationships has not been started. So many people have been rendered useless and helpless because they hooked up with the very wrong person. They never find ways of getting out as they are terribly down in all aspects. The only problem I think exists is the lack of good information. When we hear Violence, we assume it's a man beating up his woman. Meanwhile, violence spans wider than that which is been thought. There so many many a lady or a person would-be molested or abused. It could be emotionally, financially, or even spiritually. And the stages in abuse differs. There's just two words for the poor people who 've had the luck of been abused, it's GET OUT!!!! Looking back, I understand from the point of a person who is been abused, it's very tough to leave, you want towels the person, he's so vulnerable you want to protect t him. Especially if you 've kids or in a marriage. You dont want to break it up nd God knows how hard that is in this country. You look irresponsible and everyone passes judgement ivn witout hearing your stories. But guess wat? You should be very much aware it's your life we are talking about here and the good news is IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU. Nd whatever anybody thinks is of importance really and if anywrong comes, all u'd get is probably sympathies or pity. Every woman should beware and beware that if a man would beat you, it starts right from the relationship or courtship which is why we all should be smart and sharp and should communicate with God. Like a Yoruba adage says,"a person's behaviour is like smoke, u can't hide it cuz it will definitely evaporate nd everyone would know something is or was definitely cooking. It's important we all are sensitive and watch our for our punters temperaments and anger levels before commiting. You can't change him and you can't endure an abusive relationship either. Also be in the know that if he beats you now in the relationship, he would kill you if you go ahead to marry him. Be truthful to yourself, if he's abusing you now, he won't stop. Save a generation!!!!!!!!!! XOXOX

Cheers

Looking back at the past year, we 've got every reasons to be glad and bless God. So many deaths, targets not met, heartbreaks, and times we feel life is buckling underneath US. But here we are spared and very much alive. So many accomplishments achieved and for all this, I give thanks. So I lost my phone to d last year and to a very crazy sharp guy who systematically picked my pocket. Mean I cried for my Omolabake riley hard or maybe too Sef. Leaving school was happy and getting home, was a very sad event as I had to keep recounting how much I loved my baby. I couldn't imagine life without ha nd I think God just wanted to teach me that there is a life beyond me nd my selfish phone who shamelessly asks for all attention. So enough about my phone, I 've to say since I could calll mommy, I 've never had a "not too happy year"as 2012. It demanded and got all attention it could get. Too much deaths and accidents but we bless God that in in our grief nd unhappiness, we still remember and he proves his faithfulness. I have bin taught to cherish every moment and make sure I appreciate everyone whom God brings into my life.They should all be respected and cherished like we all are living on borrowed times. So counting all blessings, I''ll say, thank you lord for life and the ability and grace to live it.And like my friend Tunde likes to say, "it's congratulations to the living and condolences to the dead". As much as we all had our shares of the bad times last year, what matters is I to this one-year, member your success is not how much money you 've got.rather it's how much lives are happy and are living shilling today because of you. It's how people would react when they hear your name. Let's live like there will be no chance to right our wrongs. Love life, love yourself and love everyone. Shallom