when the good girl meets a very bad boy

A very pretty girl meets a well known player and instantly she mentions his name to her friends everyone screams oh dat boy, he's a player oooh he's gone out wit so nd so nd he broke tinuke's heart ril bad. He is soo smooth and all his charms, its just a lie."oooh u'd better stay away from him ". And the innocent gud girl thinks "oh not all guys are bada,he mite just change or maybe he hasn't met d rite person. I would just be his friend no emotions involved oh. You people don't understand him, he's not like that,he was heartbroken,he is a gud person wen u get to knw him" all normal excuses we usually give nd #GBAM# outta d blues, it hits you. You fell in love and frantically, you try to hide your emotions nd feelings buh we all knw how hard such emotions r to hide and it seeps 2ru nd contrary to your belief or fear, he returns your luv nd you ve beautiful times as he encourages you to open up nd bcos you r so much in luv, u barely realise he started sliding into his shell until he starts standing u up on dates and tryin to avoid you nd mehn you are so sensitive you start to cry nd he sees it as bin wik nd all in a moment, you go from "in a relationship,"I love my boo,"my baby is d best" to "ooh I hate boys". "Girlfriends are the best","never let a boy sweet talk you","memories" and all that ish we write . You are ivn to embarrased to talk to your friend bout it cuz honest truth is, Noone would understand the pain no mata how many times they ve gone 2ru an heartbreak, they xpct you to be strong nd forget d hurt like they did. So we all try to please our society and never be caught cryin over a guy formin patty perfect so strong and indepent. The next cycle becomes "well, I don't want a serious relationship ooh" just wanna play around","ve fun for a while". While we forget dat d same tins dat hurt us is wat we r doin to others nd so innocently we pull eachother into d heartbreak cycle. Hurting those we

my university and me

its been a rilly long tyme since I ve been here o chai!!! hurriedly clears cobwebbs(es)... its been rilly rough sha so bloggin has bin on my mind but time to blog always develop wings nd off it goes. instead of postin here,I  ve bin busy stalkin blogs allaround. so lots of issues has come up,lots of heartbreak and lots of love. so this very awesome personalities ve invaded my life and maybe university would be worth it afterall. Bidemi and Mobuolafoluwa they ve £ade this semester awesome for me here. despite d craziness, stress and annoyin school life they made classes very much less boring.        So here is a nigerian public university and a session is running into its 9th months and we are yet to conclude tests not to think or ivn mention aloud examinations while my mates r plannin on resumin or probably roundin off project. I remember back den when uncle Jisola was askin if wanted to become a grandmum before graduated form our almighty Great Ife.I felt he was bin naughty nii. So apart from d very naughty lectures who form like life outside OAU exist and the too long nd borin lectures, when my mates graduate in other schools, I'll still be here and gettin all dese odd looks get from all those very fast schooled students" oh you ve not graduated yet which to me sounds like are you sure you are in school at all?? please guys its not my fault that we are slowest nd steady in my school naa abi??? Anyways,d venting apart ve a feeling this would be a very wonderfu semester afterall am goin on my first slumber party nd wait to muse bout it. buh seriously, Public universities most taken for granted unis. So here am in my penultimate year rockin school  year(I dnt ivn knw wat it means ooh) rockin OAU and growing wiser.So dablog darls, ve a beautiful weekend nd pls help me beg Ife oooh want to grad with my mates in oda schools