lets talk about violence

Time and time again, we hear stories bout how one angry partner, beat up his or very rare her partner to death or nearly to death. There was a time in our lives when if you had the unfortunate luck to marry a man who plummets you with blows and violence. Lots of stories and awareness has been sent across the world just so women who happens to be victim most times can be educated. The best time to reach out is when such relationships has not been started. So many people have been rendered useless and helpless because they hooked up with the very wrong person. They never find ways of getting out as they are terribly down in all aspects. The only problem I think exists is the lack of good information. When we hear Violence, we assume it's a man beating up his woman. Meanwhile, violence spans wider than that which is been thought. There so many many a lady or a person would-be molested or abused. It could be emotionally, financially, or even spiritually. And the stages in abuse differs. There's just two words for the poor people who 've had the luck of been abused, it's GET OUT!!!! Looking back, I understand from the point of a person who is been abused, it's very tough to leave, you want towels the person, he's so vulnerable you want to protect t him. Especially if you 've kids or in a marriage. You dont want to break it up nd God knows how hard that is in this country. You look irresponsible and everyone passes judgement ivn witout hearing your stories. But guess wat? You should be very much aware it's your life we are talking about here and the good news is IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU. Nd whatever anybody thinks is of importance really and if anywrong comes, all u'd get is probably sympathies or pity. Every woman should beware and beware that if a man would beat you, it starts right from the relationship or courtship which is why we all should be smart and sharp and should communicate with God. Like a Yoruba adage says,"a person's behaviour is like smoke, u can't hide it cuz it will definitely evaporate nd everyone would know something is or was definitely cooking. It's important we all are sensitive and watch our for our punters temperaments and anger levels before commiting. You can't change him and you can't endure an abusive relationship either. Also be in the know that if he beats you now in the relationship, he would kill you if you go ahead to marry him. Be truthful to yourself, if he's abusing you now, he won't stop. Save a generation!!!!!!!!!! XOXOX